Its time for another chit chat
So today I want to talk about when to ditch "them", thats when to get rid of certain people in your life, again this is just my personal opinion based on relationships I had and observed other people having, and mainly this is for a bit of laugh..
So here is when you have to sing: hit the road Jack and come back no more no more NO MORE!
When to ditch the new guy in your life:
1) If he is cheap and stingy
You will observe this if he always tells you - its accepted once a week bss not in every single phone call-: babe am outta credit please call me!
You will observe this if he gifts you lousy gifts: teddy bears, chocolates, mix tapes- seriously what! are we in school?
You will observe this if he asks you to pay the bill- WOMAN RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!
You will observe this if he never takes you to nice places, your dates consist of getting shawrma and Macdonalds.
You will observe this if he asks you for cash- this is the ultimate sign
and finally if your man did all of the above: what are you still doing with him?!
2) If he is disrespectful
There are so many examples for this but here are some
You will observe this if he swears at you, and not in a joking way, but seriously swears at you.
You will observe this if he ignores your msgs and calls and gets back to you after 2 or 3 days
You will observe this if he flirts with your friends
You will observe this if he adds girls from your facebook list or takes girls pins from you and adds them on BB
You will observe this if he makes fun of you - your weight, the way you dress, the way you talk etc..
3) If he is acting shady
You will observe this if he wont share details of his basic day with you
You will observe this if everyone around you tells you he is a player and is seen flirting with other girls
You will observe this if by mistake you take his phone and he jumps like a tiger to grab it back from you
You will observe this if you catch him telling lies a couple of times
4) If he is over controlling
You will observe this if he tells you what to wear
You will observe this if he tells you where you are allowed to go and where not - even though he will be going to those places
You will observe this if he asks you to stop talking to some of your friends
You will observe this if he is constantly hinting you should quit your job and stay at home
You will observe this if he controls and monitors who you can speak to, checks your phone on daily basis, checks your social network updates -which brings me to the point why the fuck he has your password?
and finally ditch his sorry ass if:
1) He wont comitt
2) Doesnt defend you and stand up for you
3) Always breaking up and then making up
4) Initates fights for no reason
5) Lives his life to maximum but expects you to give up yours
..and no am not making relationships complicated, there are actually nice guys out there who will treat you right, but if you expect less they will have no problem in treating you like shit! The lower you go, the lower you will get!
Xoxo
TaLyan's
So today I want to talk about when to ditch "them", thats when to get rid of certain people in your life, again this is just my personal opinion based on relationships I had and observed other people having, and mainly this is for a bit of laugh..
So here is when you have to sing: hit the road Jack and come back no more no more NO MORE!
When to ditch the new guy in your life:
1) If he is cheap and stingy
You will observe this if he always tells you - its accepted once a week bss not in every single phone call-: babe am outta credit please call me!
You will observe this if he gifts you lousy gifts: teddy bears, chocolates, mix tapes- seriously what! are we in school?
You will observe this if he asks you to pay the bill- WOMAN RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!
You will observe this if he never takes you to nice places, your dates consist of getting shawrma and Macdonalds.
You will observe this if he asks you for cash- this is the ultimate sign
and finally if your man did all of the above: what are you still doing with him?!
2) If he is disrespectful
There are so many examples for this but here are some
You will observe this if he swears at you, and not in a joking way, but seriously swears at you.
You will observe this if he ignores your msgs and calls and gets back to you after 2 or 3 days
You will observe this if he flirts with your friends
You will observe this if he adds girls from your facebook list or takes girls pins from you and adds them on BB
You will observe this if he makes fun of you - your weight, the way you dress, the way you talk etc..
3) If he is acting shady
You will observe this if he wont share details of his basic day with you
You will observe this if everyone around you tells you he is a player and is seen flirting with other girls
You will observe this if by mistake you take his phone and he jumps like a tiger to grab it back from you
You will observe this if you catch him telling lies a couple of times
4) If he is over controlling
You will observe this if he tells you what to wear
You will observe this if he tells you where you are allowed to go and where not - even though he will be going to those places
You will observe this if he asks you to stop talking to some of your friends
You will observe this if he is constantly hinting you should quit your job and stay at home
You will observe this if he controls and monitors who you can speak to, checks your phone on daily basis, checks your social network updates -which brings me to the point why the fuck he has your password?
and finally ditch his sorry ass if:
1) He wont comitt
2) Doesnt defend you and stand up for you
3) Always breaking up and then making up
4) Initates fights for no reason
5) Lives his life to maximum but expects you to give up yours
..and no am not making relationships complicated, there are actually nice guys out there who will treat you right, but if you expect less they will have no problem in treating you like shit! The lower you go, the lower you will get!
Xoxo
TaLyan's
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