So am back!
It was an amazing trip, had loads of fun, surly I recommend Mauritius to all of you!
So let’s get down to business!
It’s time for another chit chat
So I have been meaning to write about this for a while but certain events that happened lately triggered me to write it NOW
So picture this scenario if you may:
You are at a wedding, the bride’s best friend asks you what you think of the wedding, and you compliment everything and then go like: mmm but I think the stage could be a bit less colorful.
At that moment she nods and agrees, after wedding is over, she goes running to bride sharing this piece of information and they reach to this conclusion:
OMG SHE IS TOTALLY JEALOUS THAT’S WHY SHE SAID THAT ABOUT THE STAGE!
Here is another scenario:
A friend asks you your opinion about a dress she is thinking to buy for her next birthday party and begs for your honest opinion, you tell her: mmm well I think it doesn’t flatter your figure as it deserves, try another one
And somehow she interrupts it as: OMGGGG she is totally jealous from me! She doesn’t want me looking good in the party am so getting this dress!!
One more scenario:
You inform a close friend that her boyfriend/fiancé/husband/6eez is making a pass at you or any other girl, and you tell her in a good hearted way to warn
And somehow she interrupts it as: OMGGGG she is so jealous of how me and my loved one are so perfect and have a good relation so she is making stuff up!
Ohh and this is my fave scenario:
You choose to keep your distance from a certain girl, you just don’t like her and don’t want to be her friend
She tells people: she won’t talk to me, she wont say hello to me, OMGG she is so jealous and intimidated by me that’s why she doesn’t want to be my friend
So basically this is how girls’ mind interrupts criticism: - please note you won’t be offering opinions without them asking and bugging you to provide opinion, and even though they asked for your opinion they won’t handle any negative opinion-
I don’t think this color suits you well- OMG SHE IS JEALOUS FROM ME
I don’t think he is being faithful to you- OMG SHE IS JEALOUS FROM ME
I think that other dress would look better on you- OMG SHE IS JEALOUS FROM ME
I think you can do better than him- OMG SHE IS JEALOUS FROM ME
And that’s one story, the disaster of it all is when you have opinions in life that oppose their lifestyle and they interrupt it as you being jealous from them and start pyscho analyzing you and making up stories
Example:
So what do you think about stay at home wives?
You: mmm well it isn’t my cup of tea, I like to keep myself busy, I get bored at home
And a girl who is sitting in the gathering is a stay at home wife interrupts it as: HAAA! Aslan she is jealous that she can’t afford staying at home, she wishes to be like to me, she is probably poor and needs to work, she IS SO JEALOUS FROM ME!
Example:
So what do you think of the following model?
You: hmmmm I don’t like her that much, I like that other one better
And a girl who is sitting in the gathering is NUTS about this model, so somehow she interrupts it as: AS IF! 6aa3 wayhaa hathi! Aslan she is so jealous from this model that she is so hot that’s why she says she doesn’t find her all that! Aslan I think I look a lot like this model, probably that’s why she doesn’t like her, OMG SHE IS TOTALLY JEALOUS FROM ME!
Example:
So what do you think of couples spending most of their time together?
You: mmm I like to have a bit of space I don’t like us being in each other’s face all the time
And a girl who is sitting there is a lovey dovey girl who spends 24hours with her hubby, interrupts what you said: HAAAA! A9lan she wishes she can have a relationship like that I hear her relationship is in trouble a9lan, why else would she be thinking like this, a9lan she is jealous from people like MEEEEE!
Example:
So what do you think about having babies?
You: Mmmm I don’t feel its for me
And suddenly all the mothers in the gathering start thinking: too good to be a mom y3ni? Aslan she must be infertile, and she is dying to have a baby, she is so jealous from us!
So basically in a girl’s mind the following feelings no longer exist:
A girl can’t simply not like something- SHE MUST BE JEALOUS
A girl can’t simply be disgusted from something: SHE MUST BE JEALOUS
A girl can’t simply not be interested: SHE MUST BE JEALOUS
Anger, fear, disgust, dislike, indifference, all of those can’t be true, the only true reason behind everything is JEALOUSY!
I guess many girls like to believe that all girls are jealous from them
And sometimes it’s a way for them to deal with negative criticism, to think people are actually just jealous
And a way to deal with upsetting facts is to live in denial and pretend that everyone is simply jealous!
See am not saying jealousy among girls doesn’t exist, god knows it does, A LOT, but its pretty pathetic to think that whenever someone says something against what you think and believe and like it means that they are simply jealous from you.
It makes you look pathetic and dumb
Sometimes open up your ears and listen if there is some truth to what they are saying
Maybe that boyfriend is infact cheating on you, maybe that dress is infact not flattering, maybe that color isn’t your color afterall, maybe that girl simply has opinions different than yours, NOT EVERY ONE IS JEALOUS!
Xoxo
TalYan’s
